When friends conspire behind your back…

What comes to mind when you hear "conspiring behind your friend's back"? Intrigue, secrecy, perhaps a dash of betrayal? Well, let me twist that notion on its head.

Recently, I found myself wrapped in a seemingly covert discussion with a friend—not about, but for another friend. Our whispers weren't steeped in scandal but strategy, plotting not a downfall but a lift-up. We were brainstorming ways to support our mutual friend's goals, aligning our clandestine tactics with their dreams.

This wasn't an isolated case. Reflecting further, I realized that such benevolent conspiracies had woven through many of my friendships, discussing each other’s aspirations with equal fervor, whether present or not. This epiphany brought a warm surge to my heart; my friends and I were not just companions, but comrades in a silent pact of mutual success.

Call it what you will—strategy, plotting, conspiring—it has evolved our relationships to a new and special level. In this realm of friendship, we’re all covert operatives in the mission of mutual achievement. This is a bond not just of shared memories but of shared futures.

So, if you find yourself chatting about a friend in their absence, steer the conversation to their aspirations. Plot their success, and when the time is right, bring these plots to light. Discuss them, refine them, act on them together. This transparent strategy elevates friendship into something more profound—a dynamic alliance where every success is collective, and every dream chased is a shared adventure.

Surround yourself with those who would conspire for you, and eagerly do the same. This is the essence of a profound connection, where behind every whispered strategy lies a profound bond of trust and support.

“Recognition of Love” - Cherry Blossom Tree at Cleveland Museum of Art and Wade Lagoon in University Circle, Cleveland Ohio